It’s a relationship made for ’80s lovers: Meg Ryan and John Mellencamp are getting ready to walk down the aisle.

Ryan, 56, announced her engagement to the 67-year-old musician in an early November Instagram post featuring an amateur sketch of the pair. The couple has been dating (on and off) since 2010. Their relationship has been tested in recent years — with long-distance issues, breakups and attempts to move on with new partners. But somehow, through it all, the pair found their way back to each other.

Take a stroll through the pair’s relationship history with this timeline of their relationship.